werboom

Posted at 19:38

27 April 2008

It is said that a picture is worth a thousand words, but really, words are just as important. I mean, we talk with words, not pictures. Words have a lot of power, whether for good or bad. Proverbs says, "The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit."

I'm reminded many times daily by my mom to speak gently and kindly. Many, many times in a day. Curbing my tongue is really hard. That's probably why Scripture talks about the tongue so many times. A sampling from Proverbs:

A man who lacks judgment derides his neighbor, but a man of understanding holds his tongue. Proverbs 11:12

Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing. Proverbs 12:18

Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue. Proverbs 17:28

But it isn't only the words from our mouth that have great effect. What we write, or blog, in this digital age, can also influence people for good or bad.

I came across this article from Boundless recently. It talks about the importance of being gracious and truthful when writing online. I'd encourage all of my readers, even if you don't blog, to read the article in its entirety. It's a good reminder to us all to use our words carefully, especially if we claim to represent Christ.

One other thing that stood out to me from this article is that we should also be careful in our comments on other's blogs. Often I comment frivolously on my friend's blogs because I treat them as places where I can show off my wit or make silly jokes. In the process of trying to be "cool", I show myself to lack judgment.

I know I will never be able to completely control my tongue (or fingertips!), but I will strive to emulate Christ and speak with courtesy and wisdom. Will you join me?